In my previous post, I expressed my desire to experience God’s Love. Thank you to Elizabeth, Elain, Wynema.. who have responded.. it’s something that I have struggled with for A LONG TIME.. I wanted to shared something with you a MIRACLE that happened.
Three Saturdays ago.. while conversing with my mentor.. a ‘lightbulb’ moment happened!
I was someone who is easily offended, didn’t know myself / identity, insecure, had negative thoughts, worries easily about what other people thinks, and mentally and emotionally distressed. DISTRESSED.
To the point that, I just could not care less for others. I was apathetic towards church, my husband, Jase, my parents.. Towards my parents, I just could not be free. There was always ‘something’ / a wall that I had put up.
I would like to add here that the devil indeed comes to kill, steal and destroy. We are indeed fighting not against flesh and blood, but the spiritual realms. In my case, the devil had won in these areas of the mind, emotions, heart.. BUT the enemy and his lies NO LONGER HAVE ANY HOLD ON ME! God Allowed all these instances, circumstances to occur as my ‘necessary journey’ towards redemption, forgiveness, understanding His Love and Grace and towards, CHARACTER SHAPING.
He is MOULDING Me. I had a heart transplant 3 Saturdays ago, and I believe God is still doing a heart surgery on me. However, He had TRANSFORMED my heart! THIS WAS THE MIRACLE. It can ONLY be God.
I HAVE PRAYED AND ASKED GOD SOOOOOOOOOO MANY, MANY TIMES TO HELP ME TO FORGIVE AND RELEASE GRACE TOWARDS OTHERS. I have prayed SOOOOOOOOOO MANY TIMES to be ‘free’.
NO MATTER HOW MUCH I TRIED TO FORGIVE AND LOVE OTHERS, I COULD NOT. It was forced, and fake. I was suffering and bleeding inside. Definitely not free!
While I was chatting with my mentor (Aunty Marian), the ‘lightbulb’ switched and was turned on! It turns out.. that…
I had an extremely wounded heart. Possibly spanning 2 DECADES! Why would I say this? This is because I noticed a PATTERN.. Wherever I was, I can get VERY EASILY offended.
Maybe it all started when I was so young, when I got ‘hurt’ or ‘wounded’ the first couple of times.. instead of asking God to help me to let go and forgive I just let the wound to ‘ROT’ inside of me..
I was also striving to PROVE MY WORTH and EARN LOVE. I’m NOT blaming anyone here, but I’d always want to be “good enough” for those closest and dearest to me. I know that these individuals will always love me, but I just craved in a way I could understand..
Whatever the cause.. my heart was wounded.
As a result, I was just so BLINDED! I couldn’t feel God’s love either!
So 3 Saturdays ago, the lightbulb switched on (by the Grace of God) and through speaking with my mentor. I prayed: Lord, I let go of trying to protect my heart my way.. I’m sorry for holding on to my pride, ego and all hurts.. I realise that all these issues that I have is because my heart has become wounded and hardened. Please Heal my heart and soften it.. Please take out all the wounds.. IN JESUS’ NAME, AMEN.
There was NO lightning or anything tangible.. BUT something in my mind and heart had changed!!! It was also quite instantaneous!!
At the time, Jase was not at home, when he got home, he could tell that I was just so rested and at peace. The next day, I went to Church, and.. my heart towards church is open, as if my mind was just transformed. I can honestly, say.. that there is not one sngle bit.. not even one teeny tiny bit of ill feeling or bad thoughts towards another person at church! THIS is a MIRACLE!!!
Also, my parents – the relationship with my parents has IMPROVED SIGNIFICANTLY. There is absolutely ZERO ill feeling or any ‘wall’.. I could be ‘free’ and just speak to them like never before!!! I am not exaggerating here.. but it truly is AMAZING!!
I also, have a heart to truly make an effort in our marriage!! For the first time in a long time, I’m reading books on marriage, and wanting to spend time with Jase. (Quality time is Jase’s love language).. WITHOUT SEEING THIS AS A ‘BURDEN’. I also realised the importance of respecting my husband!! And PRAYING FOR HIM!! I pray with such faith and genuine earnestness for OTHERS yet, for my own household, I haven’t prayed that way in a long time!!! It’s silly! Yet, it happened! Why? Because of my heart condition. I am thankful to God for all that He has done!!
BY THE GRACE OF GOD, and I THANK HIM continually that He has removed that hardness of heart! Truly, truly all that was required is for me to let go of all control over my heart. Ask Him to heal my wounded heart and take away all the wounds, the rot.. the darkness.. the clutter.. the evilness.. the gunk.. the junk.. euggh! I wished that I had realised this sooner.. but..
It was all in God’s timing!!!
Because, since that day, I have shared to a few individuals WHO WENT THROUGH SIMILAR THINGS as I did… and by the Grace of God, they also were able to ‘release’ and ask HIM to heal their hearts!! There was healing and deliverance!! All in His timing.
I am SO GRATEFUL to the LORD for this Grace, and I pray that you will be encouraged and set free (if you happen to have similar experiences to this).
God bless you and thank you for reading!
With all my love,
Mel